Who I am & What this Substack is all About…

I’m Dr. Tiffany “K.”, but many of my followers likely know me through my alter ego, Kipani. I invite you on a multimedia journey of erotic expression through the crafting of words, captivating imagery, audio, and more. In this substack, I’ll touch on topics related to sexology, kink, BDSM, D/s dynamics, holistic sexuality, erotica, and poetry. This digital magazine is meant to be a space for holistic eroticism… a merging of art, spirit, magic, and education. It is pleasure-centric, just as I am.

My Philosophy

Pleasure is tied to all aspects of our lives and enhances our mental and physical well-being. When we can live authentically, without shame, we can achieve deeper, more intense pleasure and connection to the energetic systems of our world. In turn, all aspects of our lives can improve. Pleasure is part of our holistic human experience. Everything I do is centered on this principle.

Author Bio:

Based in Southern California in the Los Angeles area, Dr. Tiffany “K.” (she, her) is a Certified Holistic Sexuality Educator (CHSE) and board-certified Sexologist who specializes in kink education, D/s dynamics, and consensual non-monogamy within her private consulting practice. Her work is deeply rooted in embodiment, holistic principles, and empowering people to live authentically.

Tiffany completed her Doctor of Education (Ed.D.) with a concentration in Leadership in 2020, M.A. in English Literature in 2013, and B.A. in English with an emphasis in Creative Writing in 2011. She has been publishing scholarly works, non-fiction articles, and erotica novellas since 2016 and is a proud promoter of erotic intelligence. In addition, she is also an RYT-200 yoga instructor, aerialist, and provocative artist.

In 2020, Tiffany became a coalition member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) and an active member of the Kink/BDSM Special Interest Group of the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS). She began her journey volunteering with The Alternative Sexual Health Research Alliance (TASHRA) in 2022 and is currently participating in the development of TASHRA’s Authority Transfer study with further interest in researching, Tantra, gender, and LGTBQ+ studies.

Tiffany is also the host of The Submissive Next Door Podcast, which brings a down-to-Earth approach to D/s dynamics and the world of kink through scholarly research, communication, consent, and safety practices. She is on a mission to de-stigmatize marginalized subcultures and sexuality by holding space for inclusion and acceptance of all sexualities and identities.

How Holistic Sexuality Found Her…

While a respected scholar, Dr. Tiffany “K.” is also a passionate artist and published author in fiction and non-fiction writing in both textbooks and scholarly journals. However, her deepest passion has always been in the field of sexuality.

Amidst a world where shame and stigma surrounded women’s sexual interests, and even condemned them for being outside the mainstream, she hid her passions away for most of her adult life. Her journey of self-discovery sparked a realization that sexuality was as much a part of her being as her own identity. Her skills and background in education, health & fitness, as well as writing made for a unique foundation to begin building a home for others who wish to look at sexuality through a more holistic lens. Her reputation as a scholar and integrity to truth, justice, and the right to learn drives her passion today to continue holding space for others who seek a comforting and non-judgmental way to grow and thrive within their being. Coupled with a yearning for artistic expression, this creates a dynamic environment that engages and relates to her clients and followers through eloquence, class, and sensuality.

For more information about Dr. Tiffany “K.”, please visit www.kipani.life

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